When I feel so far from this and reeling, well, really it is the only thing I can control and choose that works for anyone’s benefit. I need to find grace for this though. Cus the voices are bad…and strong…and no I am not talking about any voices other than the ones common to us all in our heart.
“Be the one who nurtures and builds. Be the one who has an understanding and a forgiving heart one who looks for the best in people. Leave people better than you found them.”
— Marvin J. Ashton
Charissa's Grace Notes 
It’s so hard to ignore those voices. I know. Just keep focusing on that quote.
“Leave people better than you found them.”
If only we all practiced this.
What a different world it would be.