Lamentation On Behalf Of My True Friend

Bad news swirls stark,
cold leaves on carny winds
and in this rising tide
I fear the ship is sinking.
I am choking on those
gall-soaked fingers of despair
jammed down my raw wracked throat
while I wretch and wrench
and heave to summon optimism,
that phantom failed-familiar. tumblr_n4u6ddhBr01rg18hao1_500I do all I can to bail the rising water,
even as I wrestle against fear and anxiety.
It’s in these times that sadness overwhelms me
in a blurry growing storm of weary longing,
a tragic tide of lonely isolation
sweeping deep over me, drowning me!
I have befriended long lament
and I take comfort in loud cries
and blasting mourning echoes throughout time
and history in crying, captured true in poems, songs
and statements of lament, a dolor
that submerges hope and quenches dreams.

tumblr_nccazgd7DU1rsisk5o1_500I groan in deepest cries of agony, of anger and confusion,
of disorientation, of sorrow, grief, and protest
that linger as mere echoes of a long ago lamenter of every human loss:

“Harvest is past, summer is ended, and we are not saved.
For the brokenness of the daughter of my people
I am broken; I mourn, dismay has taken hold of me.
Is there no balm in Gilead?
Is there no physician there?
Why then has not the health of the daughter of my people been restored?” tumblr_m95cwnOMwD1rrfdrgo1_500But now I face realities that feel completely overwhelming:
illness, death and loss and being ever on the losing end of things
and that through no fault of my own but always in last place or left behind.

My cry of pain is this:
my deepest acknowledgment I am still not home,
here divided from my body and my own deepest desires
found in my dearest relationships.
I am separated and long for utter restoration
in this overwhelming sorrow…

I find myself within this crucible of transformation
and discover that the waters of despair that seek to drown
and overwhelm can become waters of
glad cleansing and repair.

lament may yet have
its own way of transformation.

“For if the Lord causes grief, then They will have compassion according to Their abundant lovingkindness.”tumblr_njhuuqfPpN1rf7p4to1_1280

4 thoughts on “Lamentation On Behalf Of My True Friend

  1. “…while I wretch and wrench
    and heave to summon optimism,
    that phantom failed-familiar.”

    You did this. You do this.
    You do.

    And praises that we are on the other side of this.
    At least for now.

    • Yes, for now…and yet, somehow I feel this one was a crucial one. There was a transformation of futures in the survival of this, so that other things coming at last will settle into place with far fewer sharp corners needing sanding down.

      you did well, DDH

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