I have seen, in my solitude
Very clear things that are
not true.

The poet does not pursue
the fundamental “I”
but the essential “you”.

Things to ponder:
a heart that is solitary is
a heart no longer

But when you criticize me,

Catch also
a cricket by the wing
and accuse her
of chirruping!


Wonderful Future Portents

I am reposting this story that I found which documents the historic and potentially transformative step in gender understanding and human acceptance.  I would encourage you all to please read this, and then actually consider re thinking the ways you assign and assume gender…and perhaps when you have a child someday, you simply love that child and discover together if she is a boy or a girl.


Germany Allows for Third Gender on Birth Certificates

Germany has become the first European country to legally recognize a third gender at birth — a new law allows babies born with both male and female characteristics to have their gender left blank on birth certificates. This third option, German legislators reason, will make it so that parents no longer feel pressured to make a rash decision regarding infant sex assignment surgery.

As many as one in 1,500 people are born intersex. Because parents have to select a gender in order to register their child with the authorities, some believe it’s in their baby’s best interest to surgically assign a male or female sex immediately. However, many intersex advocates argue that the operations are damaging and unnecessary. Since gender assignment is a monumental and very personal decision, it should be left to the intersex individual to decide what s/he wants and whether that even includes surgery. As Katina Schweizer from Hamburg University puts it, “Intersexuality is not a disease. It is a variant of nature. It is a term that describes many phenomena. There are forms that come with the need to treat the condition. But when it is about cosmetic surgery of the genitals then one should wait long enough until the persons can take their own decisions.”

Under the new law, German passports will have a third designation of X, alongside M and F. It’s a wonderful start, but some critics think it doesn’t go far enough. While Silvan Agius of IGLA-Europe approves of the law for providing visibility for intersex issues, he takes issue with the fact that “it does not address the surgeries and the medicalization of intersex people and that’s not good. That has go change,” he told the BBC.

“[Intersex people] have been erased by the medical and legal establishment, and babies are still being operated on routinely,” agrees Sarah Graham, intersex woman and counselor. “Often these operations are not necessary for the child’s development. Sometimes they take away fertility and sexual responsiveness. But they’re done to make culture feel better. They’re done to reinforce these boxes of male and female.”

“Germany approves third gender option for intersex newborns” [Euronews]
“Germany allows ‘indeterminate’ gender at birth” [BBC]
Image via Angela Waye/Shutterstock.

Going and Coming

In misty morning’s early grasp
autumn rituals of smoke
and crackly leaves
lay strewn around about…


and I hover
twixt two times,
two places and wandering
from side to side
and place to place
and me to me,
fading, forming,
transparent and thin
dropping (fig) leaves.


this tree longs
to slumber
and lay dormant
awaken and
break free…


I take on form and visage
and gather threads together
of my true heart,
and feed to life’s
warp and weft and beam
till I am fashioned again,
with face and substance shining…

Her glowing Grace-Kissed Gleam.







Waltz time

3/4 time the music swirled
unfurled and rolled along
while life just twisted, doubled, curled
and sang its starry song.

Pastiche, panoramas, plans
click by like slides before
the slumbering spirits too drunk on draughts
of dreamy days of yore…

and nights of normal life, assumed,
taken as granted and gifted
while life just twisted, doubled, curled
and sang its white swan song.

Waltz time strains echoing through
A life time of refrains
But Joy endures with compass True
To dance, to love, Sustain.