I just read someone who said “F*** Gender Roles…” and then added some binary behavior from the opposite gender they are, as if that was transgressing gender roles.

Unwittingly this person was reinforcing that binary, and cis-sexism.

And they also decried the behavior of people in their life that think they own the person’s being…sorta like how all other people in my life own my gender?

Relationships that are not healthy are relationships based on the notion of possessing another, for whatever reason (completion, domination, whatever)…and the chains of enslavement are behavioral conduct and actions that hold the other hostage.

Is the term “Emotional Terrorist” an accurate one?  If one does not get one’s way, they will blow them self and everything around up?