The Problem Of Sin And It’s Not The One You Think Part 1: Definitions | john pavlovitz.
Constance, as you have figured out by now, I deeply respect, admire and trust this person John Pavlovitz, even though we have never met. His words are strong evidence of his integrity, and I suspect that an examination of the fruits of his life would reveal far more that come from Mama than the fields of the carnal being.
Please…read. Think. Act. Support.
Thanks, Brother John…and that is a title I do not use lightly or reflexively.
In deepest gratitude with much respect,
Charissa
Charissa's Grace Notes 
I also like Pavlovitz’s blog.
My take away:
“If we focus on someone’s outward conduct as evidence of their sin, we’d all be on pretty shaky ground, and I have a really hard time doing this in my personal and pastoral lives.”